When did you find your moral compass?

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In high school of course I was in Choir - I've already told you about Mr. Skiba. I auditioned for the choir that was more specialized that the regular choir and it was called Concert Singers. The guys had to wear suits, and the girls wore long dresses. We did more showy tunes, whereas the regular choir did just straight up choral music. I was totally surprised I made it in as a sophomore in HS, and most people didn't make it in until Junior Year. I'm pretty sure voice lessons helped me make it in auditions. Regardless, this was the first time that I was in a partner oriented choir - where we sang and danced with a partner. This choir was where I really became a choir geek. We were all really tight. My partner in the choir for the first year was Kurt Kromroy. He was a year older than me. He was a bass baritone. I had a huge crush on him and at one point, I thought we were a thing. But then at one of those infamous high school parties, I found out he had the hots for someone who would go past third base, and I lost all respect for him. Of course, as it is most of the time in HS, this was hearsay, and probably not even true, but high school drama ensued. The good news is that I was not willing to compromise my morals for the sake of having a boyfriend. This was about the time Skeebs kicked in and helped me get my self confidence back. I credit Kurt Kromroy with helping me find my moral compass. And to all you llittle girls out there - DON'T GIVE IN TO PEER PRESSURE. Thanks Kurt!

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